Real Housewives Brawl Ends With Blood On The Walls

Two cast members of the Real Housewives of New Jersey are accused of assaulting a man at the grand opening of a Ridgewood business on Saturday.

Christopher Laurita, husband of Real Housewives of New Jersey star Jacqueline Laurita. Photo credit: Rebecca Abma/Patch

Christopher Laurita, husband of Real Housewives of New Jersey star Jacqueline Laurita. Photo credit: Rebecca Abma/Patch

By James Kleimann

April 3, 2013

Ridgewood Patch

A Paramus man has filed charges against two cast members of the Real Housewives of New Jersey after a sink-throwing brawl left blood on the walls at the Saturday grand opening of a Ridgewood clothing boutique, Patch has learned.

More than 100 guests were at the opening of Real Housewives regular Kim DePaola‘s Posche 2, including the show’s cast and crew, when the drama broke out.

A fight broke out after a guest, identified as Johnny Karagiorgis, 38, of Paramus, allegedly made fun of the autistic son of cast member Jacqueline Laurita and her husband Christopher.

Posche 2 is in the same space that houses Moxie Salon’s second location, which is under construction.

Joe Gorga and Albie Manzo came to Christopher Laurita’s aid during the confrontation and it led to a brawl between the Housewives men and Karagioris, Dunn said.

“It was a huge brawl. Three of Kim D’s clothes racks were destroyed and three of our custom sinks were broken,” said Moxie Salon co-owner Jennifer Dunn. “There was blood on the walls.”

One of the fight participants threw one of the sinks during the fight, Dunn said. Bravo’s cameras were rolling and captured the tumult.

Ridgewood police confirmed a brawl took place Saturday night and said Karagiorgis filed a citizen’s complaint alleging that three individuals assaulted him.

Sources tell Patch two of the three named in Karagiorgis’s complaint are cast members Gorga and Christopher Laurita. Manzo was not named in the complaint, sources said.

Police said the investigation into the brawl remains active. Ridgewood Municipal Court Judge David Pfund will conduct a probable cause hearing to determine if charges are filed against the alleged aggressors.

“There was a report of a dispute that led to an assault,” Ridgewood Police Chief John Ward said. “We cannot confirm or deny it involved any cast members.”

Ward declined further comment, but said he was unaware if any cross-complaints had been filed against Karagiorgis or other parties.

Dunn estimated the damage to the sinks and the wall to be more than $15,000. Kim D’s clothing damage was also said to have represented tens of thousands in losses.

The Housewives were remorseful the brawl broke out on Saturday night, Dunn said.

“They felt really awful about it. I want people to know they’re so much nicer than they’re made out to be.”

A Statistic of One: Fighting Pancreatic Cancer, Fighting for Research

With a renewed sense of hope, Joe Grasso is raising funds, awareness on the one of the deadliest – and most underfunded – cancers.

Joe Grasso, of Ridgewood.

Joe Grasso, of Ridgewood.

By James Kleimann

August 27, 2010

Ridgewood Patch

Over two years ago, Joe Grasso was told he was going to die. After digestive problems and severe weight loss sapped Grasso’s strength, doctors discovered he had Stage 4 pancreatic cancer–the prognosis was predictably grim. Most with Stage 4 pancreatic cancer have between 3-6 months to live. He knew he didn’t have long.

“I was very fatalistic when I found out,” he said, seated in the dining room of his mother’s Ridgewood home.

“Things like this do happen in life. ‘Why not me?’ I said.”

Grasso, who himself still maintains a home on Union Street in the Village and remains active in the Ridgewood community, had a premonition something was wrong weeks prior to the discovery of the cancerous cells. Over breakfast with his wife he said, “Life is just too good right now, everything is just going too nicely. Something’s around the corner.”

He added, “And when it came around the corner it was no surprise to me.”

Wrestling with a typhoon of emotions and worry, Grasso said he wouldn’t let the weight allow him to become downtrodden. “Some might just put their head on the pillow and give up, but that’s not me.

“I can’t see a price not paying to be able to be engaged in life and to be able to be productive.”

The Diagnosis and Treatment

By the time Grasso’s doctors diagnosed him, the tumors from his pancreas had metastasized and spread to his lungs. He had digestive problems and lost roughly 20 lbs. of weight within several months, two of the more common symptoms of the disease. Other patients frequently complain of severe back and abdominal pain; jaundice often triggers a diagnosis. By the point those symptoms are apparent, the disease has already reached advanced stages. It did for Grasso.

Currently, no early detection system has been developed, partially because the pancreas is so deep in the abdomen and the symptoms are just so vague.

“The top priority at this point is to come up with some means of early detection,” Grasso said.

“That will save almost as many lives as a cure. We have an early detection for almost every high-mortality cancer–breast cancer, prostate cancer, lung cancer. One in 75 in this country will contract pancreatic cancer, and when they find out it will be too late.”

Something needs to be done, he says.

30 Years and Little Progress

There are several standard traditional treatments for pancreatic cancer: the Whipple procedure – named after a Columbia Presbyterian doctor who’d developed the procedure decades ago – essentially redirects the digestive system. Surgeons then remove the cancerous portion of the organ or the organ entirely. The procedure can only be used for a minority of patients due to the tumors often not being ‘localized’ and thus, inoperable. Radiation treatment combined with chemotherapy is also an option. Many patients have seen a modest increase in survival expectancy, but not by much.

Such treatment options have made little progress in 30 years, and the grim statistics bear it out: pancreatic cancer is the fourth-leading cause of cancer death in the United States. Seventy-six percent of patients will die in the first 12 months of diagnosis. The five-year survival rate is less than 5 percent.

Despite the statistics, pancreatic cancer is the most underfunded among leading cancer killers. Less than 2 percent of the National Cancer Institute’s annual research budget. Worse, according to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, the disease is on the rise.

There appear to be hereditary links, particularly with a significantly higher rate of incidence with African Americans and Ashkenazi Jews; smoking (Grasso said he smoked briefly in his 20s and also had an aunt die of pancreatic cancer; she lived a few months after diagnosis) and possible links to alcohol. Each link though remains just that – a mere link. There is still little understanding of what causes the disease. A cure is likely decades off, if it ever arrives.

Now 63, Grasso says he’s come to terms with his own mortality, and he says he’s hopeful to make it another year, but breakthrough research is allowing Grasso a longer lease on life.

New Research, New Hope

Grasso’s currently on what’s known as the GTX regimen, developed by Dr. Robert Fine of Columbia Presbyterian Hospital. A combination of three chemotherapies – Gemzar, Taxotere and Xeloda – in a particular pattern, at a certain level, and in a certain sequence, this regimen has brought life expectancy to roughly three years, a stark contrast to the half-year prognosis that has been the norm.

Grasso’s doctor, Dr. Stephen Schreibman at Morristown Memorial Hospital, implements Fine’s research in a clinical setting.

“Most of my pancreatic cancer patients are on the regimen,” he said.

Ten years ago, Schreibman had been working as a general oncologist with Sloan Kettering when someone told him that a doctor had a novel treatment that had been working against pancreatic cancer.

“My reaction was, ‘That’s impossible! Nothing works for pancreatic cancer,” he said.

But it has. And the results have been startling.

“The average survival of patients with pancreatic cancer is 3-6 months irrespective of what you do,” Schreibman said. “Most patients fit into that category because it’s usually spread to the liver and is inoperable… but the median rate of survival with this regimen in our treatment of metastatic cancer is 14.7 months.”

Schreibman has been collaborating with Dr. Fine for the better part of a decade, testing Fine’s research. “We – Dr. Fine and I – feel that we really can offer a treatment that is effective, that improves survival and increase the quality of life for these patients.”

Funding is critically needed, he said.

“I just hope that programs like this will increase funding. It’s only through research in the laboratory that we will find new agents and new combinations. Our goal is to keep people like Joe alive long enough to benefit from Dr. Fine’s new research.”

The Future of Funding

While the advancement of the cancer for many reaches Stage 4, the research level is still at Stage 1. Given the prevalence of the cancer and the high and quick mortality rate, Grasso said procuring funding is still unbelievably challenging. Given the statistics, that may surprise.

“Pancreatic cancer patients just aren’t living long enough to advocate,” Grasso said.

“So few people survive. Unlike breast cancer or AIDS where there are thousands of people who can march in the street, advocate, blog, and legislate in some cases, we don’t have as large or as loud a voice. That’s why it’s so vital that more funding for research be allotted.”

Undeterred, Grasso and others, notably the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (PanCan), an organization Grasso works closely with, are helping advocate on behalf of those stricken with the disease, promoting awareness, new and innovative treatment procedures, and the need for legislative action. And it may finally be getting somewhere.

The Pancreatic Cancer Research and Education Act (H.R. 3320, sponsored by Rhode Island Democrat Sheldon Whitehouse) in the House of Representatives, if enacted, would for the first time ever specifically allocate research dollars to pancreatic cancer.

The bill has been introduced to committee, but is still in the early stages of the legislative process. Grasso and PanCan are urging that people lobby to their Congressmen to support the bill and have it quickly signed into legislation. (Scott Garrett, who represents the New Jersey’s 5th district, previously co-sponsored a similar previous bill, but has yet to co-sponsor this incarnation.)

Possible Links in Research to Other Cancers

Although no one is sure how close Fine is in finding a cure, Schreibman said that the study of pancreatic cancer “is an exciting one” because the cancerous cells are not only aggressive, but there may be genetic links to other cancers.

“The genetic aspect is interesting,” he said. “There’s an association between breast, ovarian, and pancreatic cancer. It’s not uncommon to see patients who have such a strong family history; in those patients we’re looking for a gene – the ‘Brach’ gene, as it’s called – seen in breast and ovarian cancer.

“It’s an exciting aspect of it because if we can find those patients who have the gene that caused the cancer, the same in breast and ovarian cancer, Dr. Fine has devised a regiment for those patients.”

According to Schreibman, the regiment has an 80 percent response rate, though it’s far too early for them to know what the survival rate is.

“The more people you have looking over the greater amount of time, the greater you’re like to find the ultimate combination to stop the disease in its tracks.”

But without funding, the likelihood continued progress is found grows slimmer.

What Can Be Done to Help

On a more local level, Grasso is again the head organizer of the 2nd annual Newark Bears charity baseball game to help raise awareness and funds for research. The Bears will be going to bat against pancreatic cancer on Sunday Aug. 29 at 6 p.m. in Newark’s Riverfront Stadium, and all proceeds will be directly sent to Dr. Fine and his research efforts.

The tickets are $12 per person, which also offers a keepsake bear, noisemakers, a balloon launch, and a “bounce house” for the kids to play in. Dr. Schreibman and Dr. Fine will be attending the event, and there’s a good chance you may even see Newark Mayor Corey Booker in attendance. He threw out the first pitch in last year’s game after hugging Grasso.

Besides getting to watch a baseball game, maybe some of those dollars will be directly responsible for what leads to incredible progress. Without the research, it’s impossible to know.

“We’re at where breast cancer was at in the 1930s,” Grasso said. “People once thought that cancer was a death sentence, that there was simply nothing that could be done. But with research, that idea has changed and there are now early detection procedures in place.

“I have a feeling that I have another year,” he said. “All of us who have the disease are always hoping for more…I’m a statistic of one, as they say. The statistics you see don’t apply to every individual. I don’t know how much time I have.”

For now, Grasso plans on spending as much time as he can advocating and spending time with his family, particularly his five grandchildren.

“I am so energized by my interaction with them,” he said.

“I’m sure that helps. That alone doesn’t do it but I think the fact that I’m so engaged in life, that I’ve got good doctors whose advice I’m following…and just statistical luck.”

With more funding and awareness, Grasso’s hoping others don’t have to even be a statistic of one.

If you’d like to support pancreatic cancer, you can check out the Newark Bears game on Sunday by ordering tickets at 201-825-3489; you can also donate to PanCan; and lobby your political representatives.

RHS Principal Asks District To Buy Out Contract

Letter written by Lorenz’s attorney says principal “demands” $165,000 for 2011-2012.

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By James Kleimann

September 7, 2011

Ridgewood Patch

In a scathing letter that accuses the district of “degradation and belittlement,” Ridgewood High Principal Jack Lorenz has requested that the Board of Education buy out his contract, Patch has learned.

A letter sent by an attorney for Lorenz and obtained by Patch claims the district engaged in “a pattern of degradation and belittlement that is not at all appropriate in light of the exemplary manner in which Mr. Lorenz has led the Ridgewood High School as principal.”

Superintendent Dr. Daniel Fishbein said in an e-mail Wednesday morning that he would not comment on personnel, but said earlier that Lorenz was at work on Tuesday.

He has been principal since 2006.

The letter, witten by attorney Douglas Ortelere and dated August 22, demands that Lorenz be paid a full salary for 2011-2012, which would be $165,000.

Ortelere declined comment when reached Tuesday night.

Lorenz’s family has already moved to Alabama and his children have started school there. He declined to comment on the letter.

The letter cites attempts by the district to interview Lorenz’s son as part of an investigation into allegations of harassment made by the family of a 9th grader, even though the probe showed “that the principal and teaching staff had served the interests of the student at every turn.”

Ortelere states that in July 2010, the district’s Human Resources Officer, Gary Hall, completed an investigation regarding the then-9th grade student, who is believed to be Matthew Zimmer.

Zimmer’s family alleged that he was outed as gay by a teacher, was denied appropriate educational accommodations based on documented illnesses, and suffered harrassment from other students.

The case is under review by the New Jersey Division on Civil Rights and is ongoing. The letter accuses someone in the district of leaking details of the internal investigation to Patch.

Lorenz’s attorney also alleges his client was subject to unfair professional evaluations.

“Now we turn to the evaluation of Mr. Lorenz of May 12, 2011. It states: This year it was discovered that RHS Municipal Alliance money was misappropriated,” Ortelere wrote. “Yet, Mr. Hall writes in his report, dated April 12, 2011 of the same matter, as follows: The first question that must be asked in a situation like this is: ‘Was there misappropriation of public funds for personal gain?’ There is no indication here that such a thing happened.”

Ortelere wrote that it was “inexcusable” and “unconscionable” that the word “misappropriation” appeared in Lorenz’s evaluation.

Fishbein said in an e-mail Tuesday that all resignations have to be submitted to the Ridgewood Board of Education. The next meeting is Monday, September 12.

“The concern of my client is that events similar to what is described … will continue next year,” Ortelere wrote. “Mr. Lorenz cannot endure and should not be expected to endure such derogatory and incorrect comments placed or added to his annual evaluations.”